
Sorry for the blur, but my wife would rather I stay anon. Some of y'all internet people are weird.
Online Dating Shouldn't Be That Complicated.
Hi, I'm Ben. I'm 27, American, and as my mom likes to put it, "kind of just average." I'm under 6 foot, I don't have a Hollywood smile or a six-pack, and I definitely don't look like Thor.
Two years ago my DMs were drier than the Sahara. I'd throw up a few okay photos, copy a witty bio I found online, and start swiping, like most guys do. It wasn't working, and Tinder was quietly wrecking my self-esteem.
So I stopped guessing and started studying the game. I learned how to position my profile, fixed my mindset, and figured out how to text in a way that actually stands out. Now I've been on dates with 8s, 9s and 10s, and recently met the love of my life.
It's not a fluke. Dating apps are like a video game: there are rules, and once you learn them, you win. I'm going to show you exactly how.
